Adding fun sexual surprises to your intimate time can spice things up and create new depths of pleasure for both partners. It can also be an opportunity to discover each other’s pleasure preferences and strengthen your emotional connection.
Try these sexy positions to surprise your husband. He’ll love you for it!
1. Reverse Cowgirl
The reverse cowgirl position is a great option for couples who want to add some variation into their sex lives. The person on top does most of the work, bouncing up and down and grinding, but the person lying down can get involved too by touching themselves or using sex toys to stimulate their clitoral area.
To do this, the penetrating partner straddles their partner on the bed or other firm surface. Then, the partner on top lowers themselves down over their partner’s penis, and can either squat and move up and down or simply ride their partner’s back.
This position can be difficult for people who aren’t used to riding their partners, so they should start slow and progress slowly. Plus, it’s not uncommon for the person on top to feel some discomfort in their thighs and buttocks, so make sure to take breaks and stretch out, suggests Brame. It also helps to have one partner set the rhythm. This will help to avoid injury and ensure both partners are comfortable. Eventually, the partner on top will be able to find an easy harmony with their partner as they move in unison and explore different angles.
2. Crouching Tiger
If the standing wheelbarrow is a little too much of an arm workout, try this version that’s seated on the edge of the bed. Just like the original position, it involves your partner straddling your bottom leg and penetrating you, but with a new angular perspective that’s sure to make your nipples and breasts feel euphoric and intense.
Straight outta Kama Sutra, this from-behind sex position requires a bit of flexibility, but the results are worth it. Start by lying down and crisscrossing your legs, then have your penetrating partner sit on their knees on top of you, straddling your legs and balancing their own ankle on your back for support.
Then, have them slowly lower themselves onto you while you scoot your legs out behind you into missionary position. Grasp their ankles or calves for a tight fit that feels oh-so-naughty. It’s a great way to open up your vulva and clitoris, with the added bonus of making it easy for them to thrust. Remember, experimenting with different sexual positions is all about having fun and building intimacy. So be sure to communicate clearly and respectfully with your partner and ask for their feedback, preferences, and needs throughout the process.
3. Swinging Bishop
Sometimes sex becomes a bit of a routine between the sheets, so it’s nice to mix things up now and then. Trying new positions can help expose different erogenous zones and orgasm triggers, which is always fun. And it can also add an element of surprise that can get even the most dedicated of lovers to their knees.
For this sexy variation of spooning, you and your SO lie on your right side together, with your top leg straddled behind him. He can then lift and drape your leg over his, which allows him to penetrate you more deeply—and it also gives him better access to your clitoris (which he can stimulate with his fingers or a vibrator).
This position is especially good for those who want lots of g-spot stimulation. Just be sure to make eye contact with your SO as you hold the position. This will let him know you’re in control—but don’t go overboard into full dominatrix mode.
4. Ride-Em-Cowgirl
If you’re looking for a fun way to add new sex positions into your routine, then look no further than Ride ‘Em Cowgirl. Published by TickleKitty and sold at Adult Sex Toys, this sex position book includes a lot of drawn illustrations along with some helpful text to make it easier to read. It also has a few basic chapters that talk about the different types of positions and how they can improve sex. For example, the missionary chapter talks about how to take the basic missionary and improve it by adding pillows and changing up your legs.
Winner of the Independent Publisher’s Best Sexuality Book Award, this sex book provides new angles on your lovemaking pleasures with fun tips on how to tailor them to your unique penis-vagina fit.
5. Sex Toys
Most couples have their go-to sex positions when it comes to getting intimate. While the Kama Sutra lists 64 sexual positions, it’s always a good idea to shake things up and surprise your man with something new.
The missionary position gets a bad reputation for being boring, but with a little extra stimulation it can be super hot. Try adding a vibrating cock ring or other sex toy for an added thrill.
Another great way to spice up the missionary is with a nipple clamp. These devices squeeze your nipples, which provides pain and intense erotic stimulation. You can even use this with a partner if they are comfortable with it.
Whether you’re a pro with toys or just experimenting, sex toys add a whole lot of oomph to any position. From nipple clamps to vibrating strokers, Lovehoney has an array of kinky toys that will satisfy your kinkiest desires. Check them out here!