Adding new kinky things to your sexual repertoire can add excitement and freshness to your relationship. Here are some ideas to try:
For instance, have sex in a place other than the bedroom. “The change in smells, sounds and lighting is bound to heighten the experience,” says Morris.
If your partner is into anal beads, vibrators or dildos, tease them with these erotic toys.
1. Lights On
Many couples argue about whether the lights should stay on or off during sex. Some people prefer to keep them on because it’s an opportunity to explore the intimate places on their partner’s body and see how they move. Others think having the lights on is more dangerous.
Either way, having the lights on can be an amazing seduction tool. For example, lighting candles and using the room’s light to set a romantic tone is a great way to make her feel hot and desired. Adding music or an aphrodisiac food platter to the mix is also a good idea to enhance the mood.
Keeping the lights on can also help to prevent sex injuries, which is an especially big problem when the lights are off. From accidentally touching a raw belly button to mistaking hand sanitiser for lube, there are a lot of ways that someone can injure themselves during foreplay without the presence of sight.
5. Vibrating Panty
A vibrating panty is like a regular pair of lace panties that contain a pocket where a small vibrator can be inserted. The toy can be worn alone or with a skirt, and there are many different options for the vibration.
Vibrating panties are great for around-the-house foreplay. They can be used while relaxing on the sofa or watching a movie, or even during a steamy make-out session in the bedroom. And, since most panty vibes come with a remote or app, your partner can control the sensations from the next room.
For couples kinky play, you can use vibrating panties to tease your partner by slowly ramping up the intensity of the stimulation or by switching up the rhythm and speed of the tickling. You can also experiment with edging — bringing her to the edge of an orgasm before pulling back and starting over.
6. Scavenger Hunt
When it comes to sexy bucket lists, a scavenger hunt can be one of the most fun and effective ideas out there. Gather sex toys, massage oils, aphrodisiac foods and whatever other kinky items you can think of that you both enjoy. Leave notes all over the house with riddles, clues and instructions for where to find them. Some people also like to include locations that are important to their relationship as stops, such as the place where they first kissed or a sexy little hideaway you’ve used for make out sessions. You could even use some of your favorite photos as stops too. The possibilities are endless!
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