Although some women might feel intimidated by the idea of being on top during sex, it can actually be very pleasurable. All you need to do is follow a few simple tips and you’ll be riding your partner like a pro in no time.
One of the most important things to remember is to communicate with your partner about what feels good and what doesn’t. There are three basic movements you can try when you’re on top:
Positions
Being on top during sex can feel sexier and more controlled than being on bottom, and it can also allow you to see what your partner is doing and enjoying. This can be a big confidence booster for women who are shy about their stomach fat or thigh dimples, and seeing that their partner is having fun will turn them on even more.
There are many positions that can help you be on top during sex, and it’s a good idea to experiment with a few to find what feels best for you and your partner. One option is to lie down in a doggy style position and have your partner sit up facing you, straddling you with their legs on either side of yours. This can be very intimate and is great for kissing, and it’s also a good option for those who like to touch their partner’s genitals.
Another option is to use the missionary position. This is when the person on top straddles their partner and then bounces up and down on them, and it’s a great position for those who enjoy clit stimulation. It’s important to remember that this can be uncomfortable for your partner, so try to keep your movements soft and slow at first.
Experimenting with different movement can be a lot of fun, and it’s also a good idea to switch between positions if you get tired or want a change of pace. This will help to prevent boredom and ensure that both partners are getting the most pleasure out of the experience.
Movements
There are many movements you can try when on top, but one of the best is to get in a frog-like position. It is not only a more sexy position but also allows for movement around the crotch.
Another thing you can do is to rock your pelvis back and forth. You can also bounce up and down, but it is important to start off slow and move gradually. This way, you can make sure you are going in the right direction without putting too much pressure on your partner.
It is also a good idea to ask your partner what type of movements they like. They will let you know if they want to go in a certain direction, how fast or slow they want you to move and so on. This will help you to create a good rhythm that you can both enjoy.
Lastly, you can also do some Kegels to prepare your muscles for being on top. This will help you to have a better experience up there and may even give your partner a good orgasm!
It is also important to remember that being on top can be a workout for you, so don’t push too hard. This can lead to you feeling tired quickly and can ruin the sexy moment. It is also a good idea to make sure you are breathing properly and that your movements are gradual.
Tips
If you want to take your woman-on-top experience to the next level, there are a few tips that can help you get the most out of it. For one, you should always start by making sure that your partner is turned on and ready to go crazy for you. This might involve doing some pre-sex foreplay such as kissing, stroking, fondling, and other sexual activities.
Another tip is to make sure that you are positioned correctly. It is important that you are not putting too much weight on your partner, as this can cause discomfort and prevent them from being able to move their body. Xanet Pailet, a sex and intimacy coach, tells SheKnows that you should try to place your body on top of theirs with your hands or elbows next to–but not on–their bodies. This way you can still move your pelvis while riding him.
Finally, you should try to use your hands to explore and stimulate his erogenous zones while in the woman on top position. This might include touching his nipples, pulling his earlobes, and even kissing him on the neck. If you like clit stimulation, you can also ask him to put his fingers inside your vagina and play with it. This can be a huge turn on for some men and will lead to them moaning in ecstasy while you reach your G-spot.
Conclusions
Being on top is a great way to stimulate different parts of the vagina and even to touch some areas that you can’t reach as easily on the bottom. But you can’t forget that your partner has a lot to give you too.
One of the best things you can do is simply ask what positions they like best. This can be done in a playful way or in the midst of some dirty talk. Getting a clear answer will help you get right to work in the most effective ways.
And if you’re struggling to find the perfect position or movement, don’t be afraid to experiment. Try out different motions, speeds and angles until you find a combination that feels great for both of you.
And finally, remember that it’s okay to take a break sometimes. Being on top can be tiring, especially if your legs are working hard. If you feel like you need a break, don’t be afraid to let your partner know. They’ll be happy to help you relax and find that sweet spot once again. Just make sure to communicate, keep the lines of communication open and have fun!