There are a few things you can do to be sexier for your man in bed. For one, pinch your cheeks before he comes in so that you look flushed. Soft lighting is also a huge turn on.
Another trick is telling him your sexual fantasy, no matter how dirty it may be. This will make him feel wanted and turn him on even more.
1. Take A Shower Before Sex
Over the years, movies have painted shower sex as this super-amazing act of lovemaking. In reality, it can be extremely sexy and satisfying, but only if both parties are comfortable with it. You can play with each other’s erogenous zones in the steamy water and even explore oral sex in some positions. You can also use waterproof vibrators and butt plugs for some added gratification.
Just make sure to rinse off all the soap before he enters the bathroom, and that you wear something to cover your modesty. Guys can tell when you are nervous or squeamish and it will detract from the intimacy of the moment.
Taking a shower is a great way to relax, and you can even set the mood by playing some soft music or lighting some candles. It also gives you a chance to pinch your cheeks a little so that they are rosy, another turn-on for him.
2. Pinch Your Cheeks
Whether you’re getting ready to have sex or already in bed, pinching your cheeks will give your face a fresh blush and make you look seductive. It’s no secret that blushing is a turn on for guys, so this will surely make him crave you even more.
Cheek pinching is also a sign of playful affection. He may be trying to tease you or create a playful atmosphere in the bedroom. It can also be a way for him to test your boundaries and see how comfortable you are with physical touch.
Another reason he might be pinching your cheeks is that he wants to show you how beautiful you are. He may be rubbing up against you to remind you how hot you are and how much he enjoys sex with you.
4. Wear The Right Clothes
It is important to wear sexy clothes that accent your body. Instead of hiding your curves in baggy jeans – wear a flattering skirt or pair of figure hugging trousers. Wearing the right clothes can make you feel and look hotter in bed.
It’s also a good idea to wear a light amount of make up. This will hide any blemishes and give your face a fresh glow. However, remember that too much make up can turn him off.
If you want to try something sexy, then occasionally lick or bite him. This will add a new element of sexual tension to the bedroom. You could also lick or bite the back of his neck or even his nipples (they are an erogenous zone for many men). Make sure to keep your lips soft and don’t bite too hard, it might leave a mark.
5. Tell Him Your Sexual Fantasy
Many men fantasize about a variety of sexual scenarios, from laying in the missionary position to having penetrative sex in a new location. While it can be a bit intimidating to bring up these ideas with your partner, most sex therapists and experts agree that it is important to communicate and to try some of these things out for yourself.
Getting your guy excited about what’s to come in bed will make him more eager and will also help him to climax faster. Try telling him a sexy fantasy that you’ve been secretly fantasizing about, and see if he can fulfill it for you. Just be sure to communicate beforehand, set a safe word and do some research on best practices for safety and mutual satisfaction. And don’t be afraid to get dirty – guys love it when their partners aren’t shy about their desires.
6. Make A Sexy Talk
Obviously, you don’t want to be a dirty talker that throws around adjectives like “freaky”, but there are some sexy lines that work well. For example, if you’re going to be touching him in the bedroom, letting him know that his tits are “hot”, or his cock is “big” can turn him on.
Men like to be complimented, especially in bed. Telling him how good he looks after you’ve just had some sex can get the juices flowing again.
Try experimenting with different tones as well. Sometimes a deep and soulful tone works best, but other times, a little flirting or sillier voice can also turn him on. You might find a few things that he really responds to, so don’t be afraid to ask him for feedback on your pillow talk afterwards. He’ll appreciate it more if you show genuine interest. And who knows, his feedback might just help you to improve next time.