Love burns brightly in the beginning, but if you don’t stoke the fire every once in awhile it can burn out. Keep the romance alive with these sexy things to do with your partner.
Some people find watching porn to be the ultimate aphrodisiac, but reading sexy narratives is also super turn on. Try a new erotic novel together and enjoy the fantasy.
Read a Book Together
Reading a book together can increase emotional connection and improve communication in your relationship. It also allows for cultural understanding, which can be a great way to grow as a couple.
Choose a book that’ll intrigue both of you. Whether it’s a classic whodunit or a popular thriller, choosing a book that’ll spark interest and encourage discussion can be a fun way to bond together.
Selecting a book that fits both of your love languages will ensure that the experience is enjoyable for both of you.
Go for a Walk
When two people go for a walk together, they can bond through intimate communication. Plus, walking can lower stress levels and increase feelings of arousal.
Try a new hobby. Paint a room in your home, take a class at the local art studio or even learn to dance! This is a great way to learn more about each other and create lasting memories.
Write each other love letters. Seal them in an envelope and hide them around the house for your partner to find. It’s a simple act that speaks volumes about your relationship.
Watch a Movie
Watching a movie together can be an entertaining and enjoyable activity that encourages couples to have meaningful conversations. A good movie can also inspire couples to try new things together.
If you are trying to spark romance, you can try a romantic comedy or something with a lot of action and twists. You can even try a drama with a deep message about relationships.
Use the movie to drop hints that you want to be closer to him. For example, you can hold his hand on the armrest or sit shoulder to shoulder.
Go to the Gym
Having a workout buddy helps you stick to your fitness goals and can make exercise more fun. But be careful not to treat your workout like a competition. No one wants to hear you snark on your partner for failing to nail the crow pose or struggle to keep up on the spin bike.
Instead, try turning your workout into a game of high knees. Your thighs may burn, but your libido will definitely be cranking. And who doesn’t love a little healthy competition?
Drive-Thru Milkshakes
There’s something incredibly intimate about making out in a car while chowing down on milkshakes. This is a great way to connect with your boo without getting too racy.
Try this at home by licking whipped cream off of each other (or savory cheese whiz, if you’re feeling adventurous). You could even turn on some sexy music and see who can make the loudest noise.
sext each other throughout the day. It’ll keep the spark alive and make the rest of the night sexier. Try tantric sex, which is about the journey and creating a connection.
Play a Game of Striptease
Playing games that involve foreplay is a great way to flirt and tease. Blaylock-Johnson loves sexy Mad Libs for one-on-one foreplay, and she recommends the game Skin Deep for couples or friends. She also likes a sexy version of Truth or Dare, called Talk, Flirt, Dare, which has fun questions and tasks for talking, flirting, and getting intimate.
Set up a chair for your partner to lean back in, and choose music that creates the mood you want to set. Using a costume or a garter belt and props is optional, but can help to increase the drama.
Make a Meal Out of Aphrodisiac Foods
Love may start out like a wildfire but, as routine and bills set in, it can become more of a simmer than a flame. Switch things up with some sexy, playful activities.
Talk about your fantasies together (not just sexual ones). Even if you don’t want to do anything about them, sharing them is intimate and can build trust in the relationship.
Give each other massages. This is sexy, bonding and, if you go all out with aromatic oils and mood lighting, it can lead to sexiness.
Play a Game of Fantasy
Talking about sexual fantasies can be a huge turn-on for both partners. Often, these fantasies don’t involve sex but can be more about exploring each other’s bodies and feelings.
Playing a game of Sexual Spin the Wheel is an excellent way to explore new sexual fantasies and experiences in a safe and controlled environment. It also encourages open communication about sexual desires and can deepen your intimate connection.
This sexy activity can be fun and exciting, but you must always remember to respect your partner’s boundaries and sexual preferences.
Give Each Other Head Rubs
Physical touch is one of the most intimate and sexy things you can do with your partner. It’s an easy way to express love and can also be very orgasmic.
Start by sitting your partner above their head and rubbing some oil into their neck. Then move your hands down their back and up their arm to the elbow and hand.
Try using an essential oil like lavender or jasmine that can trigger orgasms. You can also use a massage brush to stimulate the skin and create an intimate atmosphere.
Go on a Friends’ Night
Love may burn like a wildfire in the beginning, but as routines set in and bills, kids, and chores take over, the flames can start to fade. Spark the fire again with unique sexy activities that keep things interesting.
Whether you’re a guy or girl, rough bedroom play can be seriously hot. But remember to use lube and be extra careful—choking, slapping, or scratching can be very painful! Especially if you’re new to this, be sure to ask your partner first. They may not want to play with you like this.